Every now and then…
Every now and then, you get transported back to a place and time that is simply special. If you are lucky enough to become a parent for the first time, I have no doubts that you will absolutely adore the way your child falls asleep on you (completely involuntarily) during the first 6 months to a year. At some point though, this simply stops happening. As part of their growing up they are better able to regulate their sleep and as a result they do not collapse on you. If you are like me, you’ll initially feel relief when this stops happening. Then you’ll miss it.
Mr. Grey has been sleeping through the night for some time now. He’s also been able to go to sleep without any one in the room since he was about three months old. But tonight he’s a bit under the weather (so is his mom). He was very upset from the time I got home until he went to sleep since he is not felling well. I spent a great deal of time with him tonight trying to calm him down. He drank his milk in my arms. He sat in my arms and watched Thomas. He still was not settled. So we rocked.
It’s been a long time since I rocked my boy to sleep. But that’s what I did tonight. And it felt good. My baby boy is not a baby anymore (a fact I witnessed when he stood on my chest and I held him steady with my hands — arms completely outstretched instead of bent at the elbows like when he couldn’t hold his own weight on his knees). And yet, he fell asleep in my arms.
And that, my friends, was simply marvelous.
To do:
The list of things I should be doing today is probably too long to post, and I’m not feeling up to them anyway. So instead I’ll post the few things that I plan to do today instead.
- Go to a bookstore to explore books on systems thinking and Buddhism.
- Hit the grocery store and pickup milk so that there is some here when Mrs. TKD and Mr. Grey get back tomorrow.
- Ruminate on the following thoughts from Andrew Brown in the UK’s Guardian and how they are interrelated with Dr. Kaza’s book Mindfully Green:
Climate change … is a global tragedy of the commons, individual action cannot be enough. I cannot ensure the survival of my grandchildren, nor even yours, without compelling you to behave in ways that science tells me are necessary. Not to act, not to coerce, itself becomes immoral.
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Compulsion will be needed but compulsion alone won’t do it. People aren’t made like that. They need to believe in what they are forced to do. They need idealism, and that will also mean its dark side: the pressure of conformism, the force of self-righteousness, huge moral weight attached to practically useless gestures like unplugging phone chargers. They need, in fact, something that does look a lot like religion. But we can’t engineer it. It can only arise spontaneously. Should that happen, the denialists, who claim that it is all a religion, will for once be telling the truth, and when they do that, they’ll have lost. I just hope it doesn’t happen too late. (Andrew Brown)
350.org – Worth Your Support
As I write this, my neighbors are running their gas-powered leaf blowers. (I confess to having not one but two such devices in my shed.) I am wondering how I will handled the leaves this year. There are literally thousands of leaves in the lawn. In the past, I’ve used the heavy artillery of the leaf blower to deal with them. The leaf blower runs on a 2-cycle engine, which means that it literally burns oil mixed with gasoline. It’s not good for the environment on a number of levels: Carbon Emissions being the first and noise pollution being the second.
After reading Dr. Kaza’s book this week, I’m seriously considering handling the leaves differently, perhaps with a rake instead of the leaf blower. It would be another step down a greener path in life.
I stumbled upon this video below at No Impact Man’s blog. It struck me and I need to share it.
On 24 October, people in 181 countries came together for the most widespread day of environmental action in the planet’s history. At over 5200 events around the world, people gathered to call for action on the climate crisis. To make this global call to action count, it must be impossible to ignore. (http://www.350.org)
You must read this book
Only in rare instances, have I read a book cover to cover in less than 24 hours. These instances are usually marked by three things: having a lot of time on my hands, having few distractions in my immediate environment, and having a book that I find absolutely compelling. This was the case with Mindfully Green by Stephanie Kaza. I’ve been meaning to read it since I saw it in the hands of one of the teenage lifeguards at our pool over the summer. I picked it up from the store on Wednesday of this week but did not being reading it until about 1:00 PM yesterday. (I’m sure of the time because I was waiting in a courtroom for a case to be heard. I was dismissed as a witness in the case thankfully and won’t be needing to go back.)
I read a lot on issues related to the environment. On average, I’d estimate that a good 70% of what I read either in print or on-line has to do with the environment. Much of the current “green” hype is just that, manic greenwashing in an attempt to catch part of the wave that Al Gore unleashed with his 2006 film An Inconvenient Truth. Sometimes though you find a real gem. Dr. Kaza’s book is one of those gems.
The book approaches environmental activism from a Buddhist perspective of following a green path, rather than simply making small yet important changes. The intention is to move the reader from the current vogue of green to a more holistic approach to caring for the environment. The discussion is split into three parts: Seeking Green Principles, Following the Green Path, and Acting on Green Values.
While I am not well schooled in Buddhist traditions, I found this book to be fascinating on a number of levels. First it challenged some of my assumptions about life. For example, in a discussion of systems thinking, Dr. Kaza introduced the concept that human beings are part of a larger system and also a system of systems themselves. As such, the Western notion of free will becomes questionable. The argument is not that individuals do not make their own decisions, but that by virtue of the fact that we are part of a larger interconnected system we are influenced by external forces that have impact on our decisions.
One Square Inch of Silence: A Review of Sorts
I started reading the book One Square Inch of Silence, by Gordon Hempton about a month and a half ago, finishing it last night. The book tracks his travels across the United States from Washington State to Washington, DC. The book is well written in largely a conversational tone and is for the most part a pleasant read.
Hempton is obsessed with the concept of natural silence. He defines natural silence roughly as the periods between human made noise (such as leaf blowers, cars, trucks, trains, and planes). The book makes the case for the need to preserve natural silence as a national treasure. Hempton believes that there are no places left in the continental US east of the Mississippi river where natural silence exists. I tend to agree with him on this point.
